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Lustbian [luh st-bee-uh n]
adjective          exclusive physical chemical attraction to other women.
Fact:  Same-sex attraction is prominent among LDS women who struggle with sexual addiction. Fact:  Same-sex attraction elicits copious amounts of shame.
I don't have all the answers.
I mean, really no one does but God.
But I do have some thoughts that might help alleviate some of the shame surrounding this struggle.

I think that one aspect of same-sex attraction that causes shame is just wondering where we fall. I used to cringe at the word 'lesbian' because I knew I was attracted to women, but I didn't feel as if I related to what the word 'lesbian' encompassed.

I don't relate to homosexuality in the sense that I want to (or have ever wanted to) carry on a romantic—or even an emotionally intimate—relationship with another woman. Rather, I am purely physically attracted to their 'parts' (for lack of a better word).

It is my lust, or the root of my addic…

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